"LOVE-MARRIAGE" A Confusing word.
I think every marriage is ARRANGED marriage sometimes arranged by parents and sometimes by partners , but each and every time it is arranged only. Because marriage is just a way to be HUSBAND and WIFE.
It is the medium to have a relationship called " husband-wife / or married couple .Just like to be a parent a person should have a child. similar with the marriage- the way/medium so that u can give a name to your relationship.
But i did not understand that how there can be love-marriage because "Love " is the emotion/ feelings a person has for another one and it is present in every relationship. and also is it like if somebody love someone and they married to different people and because of that love has GONE...???????..... no I do not think so... Truly said that Love is unconditional.
How any body can convert the love in a relationship called marriage. Love can not be converted or given some name it is always there whether it is before the marriage or after the marriage. Many time there is no love in a marriage. I can agree that there can be care for each other. Also Love is something that has no definition. Can we define " what is love"????? Perhaps no but surely we can define and have definition for marriage. Now just give it a thought that how we say that an undefined and defined things are same?????????
I also agree that love and marriage have a link between them because in general when two person love each other, they want to be with each other forever and being married is the easiest way to be together . That is why lovers want to be married. But generally I have seen that after marriage also they remain lovers forever.........................
Also now a day's for many people love is sex and having sex is love. But in my point of view when two person fall in love with each other at that time sex is not there. When time passes ..... and they are in contact with each other for a longer time period they start noticing each others' physical appearance and here comes the sexual attraction . So when love come to a stage where it is having a link with sex most of the time marriage take place and those two person become together for forever.................. LOVE ...........LOVE............LOVE .....forever....!!!!!!!!
I think every marriage is ARRANGED marriage sometimes arranged by parents and sometimes by partners , but each and every time it is arranged only. Because marriage is just a way to be HUSBAND and WIFE.
It is the medium to have a relationship called " husband-wife / or married couple .Just like to be a parent a person should have a child. similar with the marriage- the way/medium so that u can give a name to your relationship.
But i did not understand that how there can be love-marriage because "Love " is the emotion/ feelings a person has for another one and it is present in every relationship. and also is it like if somebody love someone and they married to different people and because of that love has GONE...???????..... no I do not think so... Truly said that Love is unconditional.
How any body can convert the love in a relationship called marriage. Love can not be converted or given some name it is always there whether it is before the marriage or after the marriage. Many time there is no love in a marriage. I can agree that there can be care for each other. Also Love is something that has no definition. Can we define " what is love"????? Perhaps no but surely we can define and have definition for marriage. Now just give it a thought that how we say that an undefined and defined things are same?????????
I also agree that love and marriage have a link between them because in general when two person love each other, they want to be with each other forever and being married is the easiest way to be together . That is why lovers want to be married. But generally I have seen that after marriage also they remain lovers forever.........................
Also now a day's for many people love is sex and having sex is love. But in my point of view when two person fall in love with each other at that time sex is not there. When time passes ..... and they are in contact with each other for a longer time period they start noticing each others' physical appearance and here comes the sexual attraction . So when love come to a stage where it is having a link with sex most of the time marriage take place and those two person become together for forever.................. LOVE ...........LOVE............LOVE .....forever....!!!!!!!!
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